5 out of 5 Stars
Author: Paul David Tripp
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Reading Level: Easy
Paul David Tripp writes with pastoral care and gospel richness. As I was reading Sex and Money, I felt as though he was personally preaching the gospel to me. I wish someone would have given me this book in college. He doesn’t overstate when he says, “Few areas of the human struggle reveal more powerfully the sad sinfulness of sin than the sex-and-money evils that are done thousands of times every day” (p. 11).
What I loved. Tripp rejoices in sex and money as good gifts given by God. So much of what passes for Christian “theology” on sex and money is nothing more than Greek gnosticism. The spirit is good; the body is bad. Therefore, sex and the material wealth we accumulate are base desires to be rejected outright. In contrast, Tripp says,
[B]ecause sex and money are the creations of God’s hand and exist under the control of his sovereignty, they should be approached by us with reverence and awe, not with embarrassment and timidity. Sex and money came from him, belong to him, and continue to exist through him; to him be the glory. . . . The gospel graces us with everything we need to celebrate and participate in both areas in a way that honors God and fully enjoys the good things he’s given us to enjoy. (pp. 18, 19 italics mine)
Second, Tripp drives us to the cross and admonishes us to repent (p. 82).
Here is your hope: when Christ unites him- self to you, he doesn’t leave his grace at the door. He brings to this union all of those provisions of grace that you and I need to be what we’re supposed to be and to do what we’re supposed to do in sex and in everything else. Your union with Christ welcomes you to be a sober celebrant. Sober, because you have grasped the seriousness of your union with Christ, and a celebrant, because you understand the hope and help this union provides that can be found no other way. (p. 93)
I found myself reading a few pages and stopping to pray. Reading more and repenting. Ending the chapter with praise and adoration for a gospel that’s big enough to cover even the darkest of our sins.
Be faithful to remind yourself again and again that to resist being ruled by what you’ve been welcomed to enjoy, you have been given forgiving, empowering, transforming, and delivering grace for the battle. Few things argue more strongly for your need of that grace than your struggle to keep God-given pleasures in their proper place. (p. 66)
Third, Tripps reminds us that sex is worship. “Your sexual life will always be an expression of what you truly worship. Sex is deeply religious” (p. 34) and “Sexual struggles have a much deeper beginning point than your eyes and your sexual organs” (p. 47). God created sex and he did an excellent job at it. However, sex isn’t an end in itself (see pp. 56, 75). Sex only points to God as worship of his creativity and glory (p. 59).
Reading Sex and Money is truly a practice in applying the gospel to oneself. These topics are common to us all. We all struggle or are impacted in some way by sex and money. We all need the gospel in these areas of life. Pastors must read Sex and Money as well. Not only because it will serve your heart but it will teach you how to minister to those under your care struggling with these issues.
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