Tim Keller: The Foundation for Finding A Friend for Marriage

Many people have asked me, “How can you tell whether you’ve got a friendship on which you can base a marriage?” The answer that Kathy and I have always given is this. When you see the problems in each other, do you just want to run away, or do you find a desire to work on them together? If the second impulse is yours, then you have the makings of a marriage. Do you obsess over your partner’s external shortcomings, or can you see the beauty within, and do you want to see it increasingly released? Then move forward. The power of truth that marriage has should hold no fear for you.

Keller, Tim & Kathy. The Meaning of Marriage. NY: Dulton, 2011. 97.

Read my review of The Meaning of Marriage and purchase the book from Amazon, CBD, or Monergism.